Lucy starts 1st grade this year and Penn starts 9th grade and High School! I am so excited for them and the adventures and friends this year will bring.
One of my favorite people in the world passed away this week. I loved her. Adored her. She was one of those friends I could trust and confide in and made the world significantly brighter. She was the most amazing mother in the world. She knew her children in a special, next level kind of way and nourished every part of them with such fierceness and wisdom. She was inspiring. She was patient and kind in the way that came from inside her like magic. Not in a way that can be learned or mimicked. She was insanely intelligent. She was fun and playful and involved.
She had the most beautiful, musical, Australian accent. She taught me about fun Australian traditions and I will always think of her when I enjoy a Tim Tam Slam or a meat pie or grilled banana. She was an artist and a writer and always learning. I even rehearsed the birds and bees talk I was going to give Penn on her! She leaves behind three exceptional little boys and a wonderful husband and I am holding them all in my hearts right now.
I met her about 7 or 8 years ago, I think. I can't remember now. It was before Lucy. Right after Lucy's birth she made me some magical Asian plum soup that she told me would heal everything. I wish I could make her some soup right now.
I was afraid of her cancer. Or, the Annoyance, as she called it. But I didn't expect this. Not so soon. And so I have many regrets for not reaching out more and doing more.
I'll miss you, Cheryl. Oh so much.
You can read all of her beautiful writing at https://ittybittyfoodies.com/
This summer we went to Galveston, Texas and the Miller Grandparents picked out the cutest beach house for us to stay in. All of my old memories of being at the beach, hot and crowded, left me thinking I wasn't actually a beach person. But after our time at the beach in Portland and here, I can officially say I was wrong!
We had a huge stretch of beach all to ourselves for the week. The water was warm and the weather was a lot cooler than Dallas. The ocean was right out the front door so we could wake up with leisure and pop out for a swim or a walk on the sand whenever we wanted. My dad and Daniel's parents both came! We grilled out and ate out and slept really well.
We saw the tall ship, The Elissa and enjoyed the Pleasure Pier and Rain Forest Cafe. Penn and I rented a Surrey Bike that seats 5 and rode the kids around the beach and for ice cream.
The last hurricane left an old roof in the ocean that I fell on and ended up getting a tetanus shot. Our back windshield shattered for no reason we could find. But not even blood and broken windows could dampen my joy. It was the very best beach vacation ever. I did not want to come home!
Today is our Margot Rose's birthday. She would have been 9 years old. I found this thing I had started writing for her first birthday that made me feel all the ways I felt about her when she was first born. Such a fierce love and need to protect her. It's been 9 years, but it still feels like yesterday that she was here with us. She was so sweet. She loved music the most. I remember her dancing to any beat. Even the dishwasher. She was born in July and she passed in August of the next year, so we walk through these months feeling wounded, simultaneously mourning our loss and celebrating our life with Penn and Lucy and Milo.
The little video at the end, taken with some crappy cell phone, is of us at the library. Penn was making her laugh with this giant teddy bear. She was so loud the librarian had to come tell us to stop. We spent the rest of her life doing everything we could to keep her laughing like that. I love her every day and forever.
I spend my days holding her close with ideas that maybe I could put her back in. Keep her safe. Maybe if I rock her long enough I can encourage some sort of osmosis. Absorb her. And of course, I am. Just not literally. I imagine a bubble around her. Dreams and love and ideas are spun like sugar around us.
I spend my days kissing each roll beneath her chin, the back of her neck, the top of her head where the swirls of black hair spin around and around and into a peak at the top. I run my lips across the corner of her mouth, across the hill of her cheek and down to the bottom of her earlobe. I blow into her soft wrinkled belly button and the backs of her thighs. Her hands and feet find their way into my mouth like magic. She is the softest thing that has ever existed.
She burrows into my breast to nurse and heaves a sigh of contentment when we're all settled into one another. Her eyes close and her lashes are made from the feathers of baby birds. I am swollen with longing. I pray to Father Time to keep us this way forever. Or at least a little while longer.
When she cries in the arms of someone else I am pulled like a magnet. I am biologically wired to retrieve and protect but I wait. Smile. Gently take her when she's handed over and I coo and assure that it's okay out there in the world. That I'll always be here to come back to. Always. Always.
When she cries in her Daddy's cradle I wait longer. I whisper to her that her Daddy has never loved anyone more in the whole wide world and there are no arms better or safer for her to cry in.
Her Daddy stands tall and roars at the world with brawn and willpower promising excruciating elements to any who might harm her. Just as easily he turns and nuzzles her with such gentleness, golden whiskers and bright blue eyes. "Hi, Beautiful."
I spend my days holding her close and teaching her independence. Hoping I come upon some magical formula that can balance the two through the tornadoes of growing up. Hoping that someday she will be a woman, my daughter, and my friend, and we can sit back in our dreams, and love, and ideas, spun like sugar around us.
We had the most perfect summer vacation in Portland, Oregon and Vancouver, Washington. The actual traveling part was easy and everything was on time. Our rented house in the Alberta District was lovely. Our neighborhood had everything we needed for living and for fun. The weather was chilly and a refreshing break from the Texas heat. Every meal was a joy in taste and family time. We planned nothing and followed our nose about to see the sites, which is my favorite way to travel. With no schedule or expectations, everything you do is a success! Milo thoroughly enjoyed his first plane ride. We ate at the Grilled Cheese Grill, which was a close walk from our house.
Every business and house had a Black Lives Matter sign or some type of peace and equality signage. Every single one. It was a big impact.
We had coffee at Case Studies Coffee. Lucy and Milo were playing a rock counting game. Lucy asked Milo to count the rocks in his head instead of out loud. He put the rocks on his head.
We felt right at home in our rented house.
We saw the Goonies rock with the amazing Provisnal family. Kristina took all the photos with me in them. I'm in some photos! Then we went to the most beautiful beach. Quiet and enormous with gorgeous rocks and waterfalls. I'm still thinking about it. It was cold, but Lucy couldn't resist jumping in. Milo couldn't run fast enough from a wave and he ended up wet and was not nearly as delighted about it as Lucy. We had a fire and roasted s'mores.
Milo dug holes in the sand forever.
We ate delicious noodles and dumplings at XLB. We made wishes on someone's front yard wishing tree, ate shave ice at Wailu Shave Ice, enjoyed Finnegan's Toy Store and Powell's Books in downtown Portland.
Kristina cooked an amazing dinner for our large families and we enjoyed their adventurous back yard full of fun. We went bouldering with them and I fell in love with it! On our last day we went to the International Rose Test Garden.
It was the perfect length of time. Where you want to stay longer, but are also happy to be going home. I've been wanting to get away just for fun. Somewhere far and not just traveling for work or family. (No offense work or family.) This vacation really filled me up.
Penn and I volunteered with YMSL at Juliette Fowler. Our job was to help with their campus beautification by prepping the grounds for planting. Basically, shoveling dirt in nearly 100 degree weather. It was a lot of work! We hope the residents enjoy all the new garden beds.
Lucy and I took a weekend trip to Great Wolf Lodge with her bestie, Lyra. Time alone with Lucy is extremely rare. The kids are pretty much a package deal, so wherever Lucy goes, Milo goes, including sports, birthday parties, dance and school functions. They have to share everything. Even their room. So this was a mega treat on a number of levels for us. We had SO much fun! We rode big slides and really enjoyed Magicquest. Big thanks to, Lyra's mom, Kouy, for having us on such an amazing trip!
Milo just got brave enough to go down those big blow up slides by himself. We decided for his fourth birthday we would put up one of those big slides in the backyard and invite the neighbors over to play and eat cake. Then unexpectedly it decided to RAIN all day! So at the last minute we threw up some decorations and balloons and the house was filled with kids. They had a blast and I think every toy we own got played with. Also, I'm pretty proud of the Spiderman cake.
Milo is the best little boy ever. He is cautious and contemplative and snuggly. When he's comfortable he is boisterous and loud and daring. He's always ready to go outside and ride his bike. He loves soccer and his friends and reading the book "Yummy Yucky" over and over again. I love him more than I will ever be able to say.
Penn and I have joined the Young Men's Service League (YMSL). "Young Men’s Service League is a non-profit organization that initiates and encourages young men and their mothers to pursue philanthropic involvement in their community and provides an opportunity to enhance mother/son relationships." We had our first boys meeting where all of the boys were elected to the job they will perform in the group. The boys will run meetings using the parlimentary procedure. I am so excited to be a part of this first chapter in East Dallas.
Christmas this year was simple and and fun. Our tree stayed green and fragrant through the whole holiday. We made ambitious cookies and gave them to our friends and neighbors. Lucy is obsessed with the book and cartoon The Grinch Who Stole Christmas. We made it a mission to get her a copy and she reads it now several times a day. She and Milo keep asking if we can keep it, fearing it's a library book that will have to be returned. We listen to the audio recording in the car.
I ordered a Whole Foods meal instead of cooking this year. The littles are at the magical age of play and I just didn't want to miss a minute of it over a stove or a dish washer. We enjoyed unwrapping presents, of course. Half of them were pictures and items from around the house that Lucy had wrapped up in whatever paper she could find. One of my favorite parts of the day was a random and epic sword fight between Penn and the little ones with swords that belonged to Penn when he was a toddler.
I loved watching Lucy and Milo wake up Penn to open presents after breakfast. In 2011, it was Penn waking up baby Lucy.
I got Lucy and Milo a toy called Toymail. The kids can send and receive voice messages to approved contacts through their toy. Lucy especially has the hang of it and I love the funny messages between her and Papa and the sweet things she sends to me.
Christmas was good and delicious and delightful!
Lucy had her Winter dance recital with Studio B at the beautiful McFarlin Auditorium at SMU. She was a toy soldier this year and I enjoyed another round of being the backstage dance mom. I've learned the ropes and come with a bag full of coloring books, playdough, puzzles and books because the girls have to manage staying in their hair, makeup and costume and stage ready until it's time to dance. Then there is a whirlwind of getting everyone out of their costume and into their other clothes for the stage filling group bow of all of the dancers. This is a real feat for a group of little ones.
They danced beautifully and had so much fun. We were overjoyed to have Papa and Grandparents Miller in town to watch her!
Lucy turned 6 this year surrounded by her friends and family at ASI Gymnastics. SIX! Lucy has been a bright and shiny beacon of light in my world since she was born. There is no one like her. As her reading skills bloom her other artistic and musical talents become more vibrant and intentional. Lucy is very creative. She sings and plays the piano and makes art constantly. She performed in her first piano recital this year and didn't miss a note. She said she was really nervous and her heart was beating fast and you could see the relief when she sat down, but she was so composed up there! She participated in a musical theater class and continues dancing with Studio B.
She jumped and ran and smiled with her friends at her party and has enjoyed meeting so many new people at school. She had cupcakes and singing in her class on her birthday week. We were so happy to have Grandparents Miller and Papa in town to celebrate such a wonderful occasion!
My children's birthdays are a momentous feeling for me and her party was a total success. Happy Birthday, Lucy!
The Ginko is my favorite tree. There is one a block over from us that turns into the most brilliant yellow tree every fall and every time we pass it, which is at least twice a day on school days, someone says, "There's mom's favorite tree!" It's gorgeous. Ginko leaves are like rose petals. They are soft and smooth and they flutter if you toss them into the air. They do not turn into a crunchy dirty mess. It's like a silk rug around the bottom in the fall. I love them.
This year the property that this tree is on was sold and the house is currently vacant for remodeling. We were driving by and I happened to have my camera and the tree was almost at the end of losing all of its leaves. I pulled over and we had the best time playing in the yard.
For Halloween Lucy was a Witch, Milo was a kangaroo and Penn was Gumby. We trick or treated on our fabulous street with our fabulous neighbors. Penn went out on his own with friends. There was a Halloween party in Lucy's kindergarten class with crafts and fun. The teacher's dressed up as the letter corresponding to their classrooms and the kids taped words starting with that letter on them. They had a lot of fun! And collected just the right amount of candy which is to say, not too much, but we still have some leftover in the cabinet.
I cleaned out the toy drawers and passed out small toys, bouncy balls and packets of organic honey as well as the standard fare.
Tamara Walker teaches Penn's business class. She works super hard for J L Long and her kids. Charles Schwab funded one of her Donor's Choose projects with a major bonus surprise donation of $10,000 PLUS a surprise trip for her class to attend a Ranger's Game in true VIP style. The kids were bussed over, fed, doused in swag that they were able to get autographed, met the players, got to ask them questions and had a tour of the stadium. Ms. Walker has more Donor's Choose Projects to be filled, if you're interested!
Thanks to Deborah Stewart for taking all of these photos!
Lucy started Kindergarten and Penn started 8th grade this year. For Lucy it's just the beginning. For Penn it's the last year of middle school! Both are exciting times in our lives. We are looking forward to seeing Lucy find her way academically and meet new friends. She is ready and excited! Milo misses his best friend.
Sometimes after a studio shoot the kids wander in and I take a few photos of them.
We made a rainbow cake just for fun and had cake for breakfast.
We traveled to Daniel's family's farm in Oklahoma for July 4th. We enjoyed the peaceful property and time with family. There was a lot of fishing and swimming and ranger riding and the gigantic fireworks show they put together. I shot an enormous gun. Lots of ping pong too, until Penn broke his toe stubbing it on a chair while going for a ball.
We toured the Masonic Temple in Guthrie, Oklahoma. It was built in 1923 for 3 million dollars!
We are so lucky to have such a lovely place to gather with such wonderful people.
I invited my neighbors over to do a Father's Day craft and photoshoot. We put on Dad tattoos and took photos and made handprint cards that had a photo insert. They are the cutest!
Lucy had the cutest Spring Dance Recital with Studio B at SMU's McFarlin Auditorium. The theme for the whole show was Where Dreams Come True and Lucy's class danced to Let's Go Fly a Kite, complete with kite props. The girls kept the kites a surprise from their parents for the whole semester! I've never wanted to be a backstage mom, but at Lucy's very first recital it was clear she wasn't going to give me a choice. Now I've embraced it and come armed with coloring books and card games to keep the girls busy until it's their turn to dance. I love getting to know all the girls and their sweet little personalities and learning how Lucy makes friends and follows directions.
I'm so proud of her bravery for getting on the big stage and smiling and dancing her heart out! This is SUCH a sweet time in her life and we are enjoying every moment.
The children are clearly over taking photos now.
Milo turned three! We had a fun party with friends, family, and neighbors at the house with cupcakes and balloons. It warms me to live in a place where most of his guests are able to walk over. He felt special and loved. I know three is the last age of babydom. Three is my least favorite age because there are so many mental and physical transitions to go through. They become more coordinated and have a big vocabulary boost. But they also have potty training and still not as much coordination and vocabulary as they would like. Milo was such a sweet little baby and he is still such a sweet little toddler. He's smart and patient and self aware at a level that is so enjoyable to parent. He is boisterous and vivacious in comfortable company and a quiet little lap lump in new environments. He relies heavily on Lucy, but she enjoys his friendship. I can take him anywhere thanks to his dependable calmness. He is interested in everything. He'll happily sit at a restaurant table for an hour or walk an art museum with little complaint. He is not the rough and tumble boy full of wrestles and raucous, but more of a contemplative boy who is observant and funny. He fits right in. I love him more than anything.
I got to photograph one of my most favorite human beings on the whole planet for her Save the Date wedding card! They are the most fun and happy couple and I loved watching them love. Bessie owns the wonderful dance studio, Studio B, that my daughter attends. She's a true champion of our community.
I love telling this story. When Lucy started dance she was so shy and had so much anxiety around new people she would practically have a panic attack. When I took her to buy shoes for her first dance class she cried so much I was certain Bessie would call me the next day and tell me there was no way they were going to let her dance there. But she didn't and Lucy went to dance and Bessie and the teachers were so kind and patient and encouraging and without judgment. Lucy had so much fun and from there really grew into someone who loves performing. (Now we can't get her to stop!) I adore this lady!
Lucy's winter dance recital was the sweetest ever! Her class tap danced to the Hap Hap Happy Snowman. Lucy is so drawn to music, dancing and singing and it's a pleasure to watch her grow each year in the things she loves. She dances with Studio B and they performed at the beautiful McFarlin Auditorium at SMU.
Penn Lennon is 13, Lucy Pearl is 5 and Milo West is 2. They are growing up so fast and so sweet! I'm the luckiest woman in the world to be their mom. And I need to take as many photos as possible of this brunette, blonde and redhead together before Milo loses that great baby white blonde hair!
Penn turned 13 on November 27th. I have a teenager! We woke him up with breakfast and a candle like we have since he was little. He opened presents and we took him and some friends to play paint ball.
I am so lucky to be his mother. He has certainly made me a better person. He was born on Thanksgiving Day and I've always enjoyed the symbolism of that day. I love his dry wit and love of humor. I love how strong his convictions can be, his interest in music, good food and his obsession with playing soccer. I love his ability to forgive and his determination to move forward. I love his focus on the positive and how he doesn't let obstacles get him down. Penn makes me laugh and love and hope. Watching him grow and loving him is a joy and privilege.
*first photo credit to Brandon Hutchinson.
Milo hit Lucy today and refused to apologize. This was his first time out. He had to stay there until he said he was sorry. It only took an hour.
Penn dressed as Ken Bone for Halloween this year. He rode his bike with Waldo to a Halloween party and waited until he got there to don his mustache and name tag. He came back with a lot of candy so I guess they had fun! Lucy dressed up as Wonder Woman and Milo dressed up as Batman. We had so much fun trick or treating down our street and hanging out with our adorable neighbors. I love this street.
My S'mores neighbors!
I had the great pleasure of shooting the fabulous secret party, Diner En Blanc for Itty Bitty Foodies. Check out her blog for a lovely post and in the video wrap up. It was spectacular! There were 2,300 in attendance. There are some strict rules. You must dress in all white from head to toe. This includes media, the band, and coordinators. Even the porta-potties were white! You bring your own all white tables and decoration and your own dinner. The location is top secret. Guests meet at a location to be bussed over to the surprise. This year was downtown at City Hall. It is such a spectacle of fun and friends gathered and I was so happy to be part of it!
I photographed twice the love with these precious newborn twins! An absolutely perfect girl and boy pair full of all the cuddly sweetness.
I had the best time with these two at the Dallas Arboretum!
Penn ran his first cross country meet with J. L. Long this weekend. This is a great group of kids and they did fantastically! The Long girl's team came in 1st, the boys came in 2nd and Penn came in 25th.
Penn starts seventh grade today. Here he is armed for middle school with his saxophone and new contacts.
This one of my most favorite families ever! I was sweaty and hot. They were bright and beautiful and happy. Every time. They are magic.
I first met this sweet boy when he was little bitty. Now look at him, taller than me and along with his sister! Truly one of the great joys of photographing family portraits is watching people grow.
She is one of the most delightful girls! We had the best mini session.
This is the most adorable pair of sisters! I love their big brown eyes and happy smiles and how much they enjoy eachother.
Look at this adorable little sweetheart! This family rocked the mini session. Mom and dad are bright and smart and happy and amazing and Candace is such a perfect combination of them. I love them!
I love this brother and sister SO MUCH! They had a great Summer Mini Session.
We started early for this couples one year anniversary portrait in Highland Park. It was a gorgeous morning with soft sunlight and a gentle temperature. I love their light airy colors against the deepness of the summer foliage and their sweet playful personalities and willingness to get in the water with me.
The kids and I spent some time walking around a Dallas park.
I haven't done a mini session since 2007. But it is SO HOT outside right now I would love to bring you all indoors for an awesome air conditioned Summer portrait!
There is limited availability on July 29th and 31st only. Each session will be 20 minutes in the studio. You will get up to 5 edited images in an online gallery. Prints and downloads are purchased separately. This portrait is going to be best for individuals, kids or small families.
Click here to book your mini session online and we can discuss the details of making you a smashing Summer portrait!
I got to photograph sweet, brand new baby J. She is soft and cuddly and perfect and has the most adoring parents. Welcome, little one!
We went out early in the morning to shoot a summer portrait for Baby T. The weather was gentle and his blue eyes were so sweet and sparkly. I've been watching him grow since he was a newborn and he manages to be cuter every time I see him! I love this stage where their personalities really start showing off. I also love that his amazing parents were willing to step in for a few, even though Baby T. was supposed to be the focus. They were great!
We went to Oklahoma to The Farm again for the Fourth of July. We had a 24 hour delay to wait out Lucy's surprise stomach virus, but once on the road it was a great and healthy trip surrounded by friends, family, food and a huge homemade fireworks extravaganza. Since some of the cousins couldn't make it we were so grateful to have Penn's friend Bramm join us!
This was the first year Milo and I have gotten in the water and gone kayaking. It was a quick and busy weekend and not much captured in my big camera. Just enough for Lucy to remember how much she loves her cousin, Grace. And Milo called all his Troop cousins Elsa because he thought they were the princesses from the movie Frozen. Which kind of melted me every time he asked for them. "Where's Elsa?"
Happy Birthday, America.
I had the greatest pleasure to shoot this little guy's first birthday party at the Northwood Club! His beautiful and creative mother thought of everything! Every detail was exquisite and whimsical and a perfect backdrop to celebrate his first wonderful year surrounded by friends and family. I love birthdays!
These headshots are photographed as the company requires them in a beautiful building in Downtown Dallas for a Private Equity Firm.
This family finally got to fulfill the portrait they booked in the Fall of 2015 in the Spring of 2016! It was a scorcher at the Arboretum but we were on a roll as soon as I found the funny in this handsome little man. His feet are stinky and that is HILARIOUS. This day was worth the wait!
I adore this family more than just anything. Some families just have it all together and that's always my impression with Allison and Caroline. They are all full of happy, smiley, giggly love. And dinosaur roars.
The littles and I went to A-Kon this year to watch Daniel speak with Minecraft U speak for the second year in a row.
A-Kon is a three day anime convention held in annually Dallas.
Lucy participated in her 2nd big recital! They wore the most adorable blue velvet costumes and performed a ballet routine to the song Bippity Boppity Boo. I was the backstage mom helper which is the job only a crazy person will take. Luckily my mom flew in from Michigan and was there to help. Studio B has been really fantastic for Lucy. So happy to be part of their dance family.
On May 21st Milo West turned 2 years old! He got to celebrate with grandparents from Oklahoma and Michigan. He made whipped cream for his strawberry shortcake and cried when we sang him happy birthday.
Milo is amazing. He is sweet and cuddly and smart and blonde. He adores Lucy and Penn. He went from hating the child care at the YMCA while I worked out to LOVING it and crying if we go straight to the pool. He loves swimming and is big enough to wear a puddle jumper. He likes choo choo trains and trash trucks and his toy microwave. He likes Peppa Pig and Mickey Mouse and chocolate. He loves chocolate.
I love him. I love this age. I love his smile, his beautiful hazel eyes and how he says "Peeze" and "Thank you mommy" and "Wassat sound?" I love him.
Penn broke his arm at a J. L. Long soccer clinic. A good break through the forearm and his elbow. He wore a long cast for six weeks. You might remember the last time he was hurt it was his broken clavicle while playing soccer at the SMU soccer camp.
*Please don't be a trend. Please don't be a trend. Please don't be a trend.*
I love Easter at Tietze Park! Some kids are real go getters with the egg gathering. The eggs are in a roped off section and when someone says Go! the kids rush in and fill their baskets.
My kids are kind of slow and thoughtful and methodical. Even when they are rushing it's more of a mental stressor than actual swiftness. Knowing this we were pressed right at the edge of the rope to be first in the gate. And despite being first and despite the hundreds of eggs everywhere, they came away with zero. Zero eggs. None. I mean, it was baffling how this could even be possible.
Which we were not making a big deal out of. But some sweet organizer saw them still digging around for maybe just one forgotten treat, went and got a bag of eggs and created a little Easter egg hunt JUST FOR LUCY AND MILO. It was incredibly generous. I was touched. You can see the sweet guy standing in the background of this first photo in the black shorts by the boxes.
He really made our day.
Grandparents Miller came to visit and we had a picnic at the arboretum from the Grilled Cheese Truck.
I had the great pleasure of shooting some some headshots for Modern Message. Modern Message helps apartment communities spread the word online about how awesome their residence is. It is also where Daniel works. :) You can follow them on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter.
Lucy has been really into American Girl Dolls this year. We celebrated her birthday with lunch at the American Girl restaurant.
Lucy turned 4! Sadly I didn't take many photos. But we ate lemon tarts for breakfast and went downtown to play and opened presents. She invited some friends to go to Studio Movie Grill to watch The Good Dinosaur. She got a Disney Princess Cookbook and I rolled my eyes because it's so Disney and Princess and I'm not really a Disney kind of mom. But this a great cookbook and we've made several tasty things!
Disclosure: This post lacks detail because I'm back blogging after her 6th birthday upon realizing I never posted anything.
We went to see my Nana in Arkansas over Thanksgiving break. She moved to hospice care so we knew it might be one of the last times we all got to be together. It rained constantly for the entire trip so I just took photos with my phone. It was nice and sad and nostalgic to go back and hug her and see the old photos she kept around in her room. I love my Nana dearly. She taught me a lot about taking the high road and cooking. She might have had some strong opinions, but she was never judgemental towards me. I felt her love constant no matter my successes or my failures. She spent a lot of time with me at church, playing checkers with me and gave the best back scratches. Blanche LaJoy was a wonderful woman and I will always have good stories about her to tell my children while we make her chicken and dumplings.